Online Dating Tips For Men That Get Results

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The fundamental approaches to dating have changed over the years. It used to be all about going to dance halls, disco’s, bars and night clubs to meet women. However these days the game has changed dramatically. The internet and technology has changed everything. The following online dating tips for men will provide you with a framework to operate from to ensure good results.

Just a few short years ago there was a real stigma attached to online dating. It was deemed to be desperate and risky and often frowned upon. This is particularly the experience and the case for men over the age of 35 who didn’t grow up with the internet. Its very important to look beyond this because the following online dating tips for men will work for you if you apply them.

You need to embrace this new paradigm and not only get in the game, but ensure you have the right information and approach to be successful at it.

The following online dating tips for men are as follows:

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• To state the obvious, if you do not already have an online account you need to create one. It needs to be with a reputable and popular dating site with a high membership and following attached. This ensures that your efforts are not wasted or focused into smaller and perhaps more dubious sites. 

  Its not the purpose of this article to promote online dating sites, however a good place to start would be to look at RSVP or eHarmony. These are two long standing online dating sites that I have personally used successfully.

Create a member profile. You should attach your photo (some sites enable you to password protect your photo so you can give it out to those people you only want to see it). Provide a clear outline of who you are. It need not be a short or an overly long account.  Some women really appreciate ‘effort’ and see a longer quality profile as indicative of a man that takes the time. Others get so many emails they don’t read long emails or profiles. It really is a judgement call. Whatever you do just ensure it is quality.

Get your spelling and grammar 100% correct! This is a not negotiable. The most common feedback I have received from women is;  “Finally a man who can spell a word and string a sentence together!” So as far as online dating tips for men are concerned this is all important. A lot of women will not respond to a guy who cannot spell or has a shoddy profile. The key is to get someone you trust to check it for you. A quality profile attracts a quality woman.

Another one of my key online dating tips for men is that you do not get to ‘know’ someone by communicating online with them – you merely get to ‘believe’ them. I want you to read that again. Get this message and you will save yourself a lot of time, effort, money and trouble. Why? Many women are reluctant to meet men straight away.

Remember women get ‘hit on’ all the time. They get bombarded with emails and invitations and they become very wary of men generally speaking. This relates particularly to attractive and highly sought after women. So what do you do about it?

Be clear with women about how you approach the online dating process.  And make no mistake it is a ‘process’. State that you see this as an opportunity to ‘contact’ them online to then ‘meet’ them and get to know them ‘in the real world’. State that you are a genuine man who is looking for a meaningful relationship.

Some women will respond positively to this. Others will try to draw out the  this process by back and forth emailing. Be very careful doing this. Online communication is limited. Its often misconstrued. Often genuine misunderstandings occur. Don’t enter in to this. Get the contact. Make the date. Then proceed from there. Control the communication and take charge in showing women that you are confident enough in yourself to lead the way.

A general rule of thumb is to send your emails on a weekend. This isn’t necessary but its worth considering as another one of those important and often overlooked online dating tips for men. Women generally check there accounts through the week, but often respond to them on a weekend.

Remember, they get lots of emails, so they usually put time aside to answer or cull them – particularly after a night out Friday or Saturday with the girls where once again they do not meet the man of their dreams.  Make sure your emails are sent around this time.

Be decisive. As mentioned earlier, take control and communicate your approach and get the date quickly. What you also need to consider is the safety aspect from the womans perspective. I recommend that once she has said she will meet you, offer your personal details and recommend she share them with a friend before she meets you. Women appreciate this.

Also recommend a few dating spots but give her the opportunity to choose one of them. This again shows her you can make decisions but you are taking her opinion and her need for safety and comfort into account. Of course if she has a better idea go with that.

Of course there are so many other components when considering a list of important online dating tips for men. These are a good starting point. Importantly, take action. Take the time.  Make the effort. Show leadership. Demonstrate respect. And be clear in your communications. Ensure you stand out from the crowd and you will gain her attention and respect.

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